For those of us who consider cats as our family members, it is almost inconceivable that some people dislike them or actually hate them. "Hate" is a strong word to use against any living creature, especially a sentient being, a category that embraces humans, cats, and many animals. But there are such people, more kindly known as ailurophobes.
Certainly, cats are self-aware and are able and willing to communicate both their likes and dislikes. They often communicate quite vocally, and sometimes even physically, with a swift swat with outstretched claws when too much petting overstimulates them. Animal communicators use those traits to communicate with animals telepathically, an astounding ability to those of us who watch or read about famous animal communicators such as Jackson Galaxy, star of the popular Animal Planet My Cat From Hell TV series.
01 of 07
Given the chance, cats will poop in rich garden earth. And yes, sometimes that poop stinks to high heaven. Actually, there are reasons for it—outside, cats will leave their poop uncovered as a territorial marking for other cats' information. They also will prolifically spray urine against doors to mark their territory, even though there may be other cats living inside. (Or especially if there are cats living inside.) It causes two separate problems when those indoor cats either observe the cat outside through a window or smell the acrid odor of the urine spray:
- Redirected Aggression: When a house cat sees a stranger in its yard, out of frustration, it will attack the closest cat, one of its innocent housemates.
- Territorial Spraying: By the same token, if a strange cat has the audacity to spray the outside of a door, the cat who lives there will instinctively mark the inside of the same door.
02 of 07
Cats are Sneaky, Cunning, and Manipulative
Dedicated cat lovers can understand why others may dislike cats' various use of subterfuge in order to gain those things they want, need, or think they need. Cat owners have been known to spend 10 minutes trying to nicely ask—"order"—beg—cajole a recalcitrant calico cat out of a chair. However, cats have become the mistresses of manipulation. It isn't hard to understand why someone with little experience or knowledge of cats might distrust their motives.
03 of 07
It is completely understandable why people with allergies to cats can't stand being anywhere near them. They may not "hate" cats, but they hate the way cats' dander triggers their allergy symptoms, from mild hay fever to full-blown asthmatic attacks.
Other people who have lived with asthma and cats for their entire lives can fully understand and empathize with these folks. If you're a cat owner, have friends with allergies, and invite them over to your house, you should do your best to make the house as allergen-proof as possible.
04 of 07
Cats Kill Birds
It is a given fact that cats, being obligate carnivores, are predators. Also widely acknowledged is the fact that, whether indoor-only, free-roaming owned cats or feral and stray, birds and mice are some of the cats' favorite prey.
It Doesn't Need to Be a Win-Lose Situation
Groups such as the Alley Cats Allies and Alley Cat Rescue have established protocols for feral cat colonies for managed care. The cats are trapped, neutered or spayed, and released back into their colonies. A vital part of the managed care is feeding the cats, which will go a long way in quenching their desire to kill wild birds for food. Alley Cat Rescue goes a step further by setting aside those kittens and less wild young adults for their adoption center. They find loving forever homes for about 250 cats and kittens a year.
Cat Owners Can Also Do Their Part
Songbirds and brightly colored wild birds bring both audible and visual joy to cat owners' lives, and many will go to any lengths to protect them from their cats. Think about adding birdhouses and bird nesting material to round out the birds' pleasure, while at the same time providing more activities for the cats to watch. Cats really enjoy watching the birds through the kitchen window.Continue to 5 of 7 below.
05 of 07
It may be that these particular people had a cat at one time, but gave it up because of scratching or biting behavior. Or perhaps they were attacked while visiting a friend or neighbor. Aggressive scratching and biting behavior are learned very early in a cat's life—probably during kittenhood.
Cats that are taught that human's hands are toys will often bite their owners' hands when they become adults.
It may be too late to teach your imaginary previous cat owner, but if you teach your cats that scratching and biting behavior is not allowed, it may just serve as an example to your visitors that cats can be taught not to scratch and bite.
06 of 07
"I got cat class and I got cat style."
It is difficult to make a blanket statement on this aspect of the feline personality. Certainly, there are cats that are stand-offish, cats who intensely desired and need cuddling and attention, and cats who alternated between these moods from time to time.
Readers seemed to be of a like mind when asked if cats are solitary animals. Two responses:
I grew up on a farm, with plenty of cats. I have seen cats hunt for a rabbit like a pride of lions. I have seen cats sleep in a pile for warmth. I have seen mother cats share duties in raising litters. And I have loved and been loved by cats for more than 50 years of my life. Cats are not solitary. Only an unobservant person that allows others, such as "experts," do their thinking for them would believe so (in my opinion).
So cats are not (generally) subservient to humans, does that necessarily make them solitary? I think not. Individualists, maybe, but certainly not solitary!
-Guest Mother McCridhe
No, They're Not
Cats have lots of mirror neurons. The function of mirror neurons is to help the brain learn and navigate psychosocial environments. The percentage of brain area devoted to mirroring neurons in cats is comparable to the percentage in humans.
That's why cats are such useful test subjects in neuroscientific research. Their brains are very much like ours in composition and layout. Humans aren't solitary animals, and given that the feline brain is put together almost the same way, I would imagine it's more likely than not that cats aren't solitary animals either. You'll get your occasional loner or nutcase that breaks the rule, but nothing I've experienced with cats would lead me to believe that they're solitary animals, and the science appears to support that.
07 of 07
Ailurophobia is the irrational, intense fear of cats, a condition that is difficult for cat lovers to understand unless they have seen it. One of the most famous ailurophobes was Napoleon Bonaparte.
I first witnessed ailurophobia many years ago when I was working shift work as a police dispatcher. I spent the night with a fellow employee, as I had to be back at work early the next morning. Around three in the morning, I was awakened by loud thumping noises and a voice screaming, "Get out! Get out!" I also heard a cat yowling. In the living room I saw a large tomcat trapped in a corner of the room, and my friend on her knees, beating at him with a straw broom. It was apparent that the cat had come in through a partially open window on that warm summer night, perhaps enticed by the odor of the fried chicken dinner my friend had cooked that night.
Seeing how terrified my friend was, I gently took the broom from her and asked her to wait in her bedroom. I then quietly coaxed the poor terrified tom out of the corner and out again through the window.